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The Village 

is a community for perfectionists that are looking for a way out of the hustle-grind-guilt-shame-overwhelm-exhaustion-burnout cycle. 

Join us and our community of recovering perfectionists and get the support you need to live a life that is calm, peaceful, productive and successful without sacrificing everything YOU want and need to get it.

The Village is about YOU - putting yourself at the top of the list for once.

This is where you discover who YOU are, what YOU want, what YOU need and then the tools and un-wavering confidence to build that life.


Hi there 😁 

If you are reading this then that probably means 3 things: 

1: You’ve spent some time in our content and/or have joined us for a training or two

2: You are tired, frustrated, and feeling like you’re all on your own.

3: You are a talented, passionate perfectionist teetering on the edge of burnout after a lifetime of crisis and trauma-induced people pleasing, and over producing for everyone and everything in your life…maybe some procrastination too? 

If that is you, then the first thing we want to do is celebrate the hell out of you! 

Just by being here, you are showing up for yourself in a big way and around here that’s a big fucking deal. 

Looking for a way to give yourself the support, care and love you deserve is no small feat, so just know that no matter what happens next we see you taking the steps to not be another person who abandoned you.


If you are brand new to us and our work...

and you really want to find some answers then we’d like to suggest you start by checking out our FREE starter kit.

This is where you can get a good look at our philosophies and teachings to see if you actually like the vibe and feel like you can hang with our brand of compassionate accountability and healing.

The Village origin story:

11 years ago we were so deeply rooted in perfectionism and survival mode that we landed in burnout so hard we almost didn’t make it out. In all the ways. 

Our physical, mental and emotional health were in danger in a way they’d never been before. In order to survive we needed to make long-lasting sustainable changes in our lives and our relationships.

The first few years of this journey were some of the hardest years of our lives but we were committed to not abandoning ourselves ever again.  

Along the way we had to be honest with ourselves about what we really wanted vs what we were settling for and what was expected from us.

 We started asking ourselves “is this really what I want?” 

 The answers that came back were surprising. But what was most surprising was that the more we healed, the more we expressed ourselves, and the more started doing things in a way that supported our needs - the lonelier it got.

We turned to "experts" -coaches, mentors, friends and family but they just didn’t understand that our life was not as easy as following the simple 1-2-3 steps. And that we weren’t willing to keep forcing ourselves, or our kids, to fit into societal structures that didn't serve any of us.

They didn't understand the complexity and unpredictability of multiple chronic illnesses (ME/CFS, POTs, EDs, MCAS, etc) or neurodivergent brains or the chronic nervous system dysregulation of our respective complex trauma.

We were struggling on every level and it seemed like the only advice we got was “decrease your stress and do it THIS way" or "just be optimistic, think positive".

I cannot find the words to describe the heartache, frustration, and grief we went through but I'm sure you can relate.

Even still, we knew that on the other side of the leach infested swamp there was a life that waiting for us that was pure fucking magic.

So we did what any good Neurodivergent-codependent-perfectionist-introverted couple would do. 

We stayed inside and hunkered down to figure it out for ourselves. 

AND we did it….it just took every ounce of energy we had and 6 fucking years to do it. But we did it.

As we released coping mechanisms, "bad" habits and relationships that were no longer aligned with where we wanted to be and what we wanted in our lives, we healed.

Through it all, we ended up developing systems and found philosophies that honored our lived experience and those who have traveled similar paths.

Community is one of the most crucial pillars of those philosophies and systems.

 Letting go of survival coping mechanisms, bad habits and relationships that were forged in trauma so that you can express your true self and live your most fulfilling life can be hard and sometimes scary work. And what we discovered, both in our personal experience and with clients, but also in neuroscience studies - you can only go so far with this healing journey and transformation solo.

Doing it alone is hard and sad and scary, it takes a really long time and makes you really really really tired. Basically it sucks but also - you hit a wall. 

And since we’ve figured out so much on this journey that we wished we had known sooner, we created a community where overachievers and perfectionists could learn how to heal from burnout, create sustainable life changing choices and habits and begin to dream beyond surviving.

All without worrying about running out of money or time.

Thus, The Village was born. A lifetime membership community for perfectionist and high achievers to learn how to safely recover from burnout by reclaiming their life.


If you are anything like our current Villagers then you’re probably not “asking" for much

🌠 “I just want to have a calm, peaceful, productive day”

🌠 “The courage to release things without financial fear”

🌠 “I want to feel less urgency for things that can wait”

🌠 “I wish I had people around me that I could trust to just handle things. I’m so tired of always having to be the one to do it.”

🌠 “I want to know if this whole “everything is overwhelming” feeling will ever go away.” 

🌠 “Support. Like real, valuable support.”

Every single thing you want and wish for is valid.

But “wishing” isn’t going to get it done. 

And even though the perfectionist in you is telling you to “do it all on your own”, by now you’ve tried that like 8 billion times and you know - it’s not a solution, it just delays the inevitable.

Here’s how we do it…

We walk our Village members through our signature strategy to help you do 5 main things that will change your life: 

  2. Uncover what you really want and need (as opposed to what you’ve been told you can have)  (Compassionate Curiosity)
  3. Become crystal clear on who you are, what you’re about and what is non-negotiable for you to live your best life (Core Values) 
  4. Create rock solid boundaries (that feel good, not guilt-ridden) and practices that will SLOWLY begin to shift how you spend your time and energy (Draft Mode)  
  5. Build sustainable habits that work WITH your unique life - not against it. So that you are getting the results you want. 

No “wiping the slate clean” or “starting over fresh” - you don’t have time for that crap. Your life is demanding, you are tired and just want shit to be different.

We help you work with what you’ve got to get what you want.

This is what you've been waiting for...


Every month, Village members have access to (2) Live Q&A calls. Many bring questions they have as they apply the R&R concepts and strategy to their relationships and goals. Others rarely ask questions but attend because they gain so much from others'.

The replays are always available to members if they can't attend live because none of our members have predictable day-to-day lives.


All of the masterclasses and resources are created specifically for people recovering from people pleasing patterns, procrastination, overachieving and rigidity.

  • Exclusive to The Village educational modules and workbooks
  • Over 15 hours of perfectionist specific masterclasses including Boundaries AF, Badass Core Values, and more.
  • Quarterly theme so you don't have figure out where to focus


The Village online community is intentionally hosted on the Circle platform, far away from the noise, distraction, and the drama of Facebook. This is where you:

  • Ask questions and get answers from both Tasha & Brandon 
  • Share your Wins, aha moments and get inspired by others who are on the same journey
  • Access the schedule for upcoming Q&A calls and any other events

The Village is NOT 🙅‍♀️ 🙅‍♂️ for you if:

  • You already know how to regulate your nervous system and do it consistently
  • You are making decisions easily, without hesitation or doubting yourself
  • You have tell people NO easily and frequently
  • You ask for what you need
  • You regularly wake up energized and excited for the day ahead
  • You rest, play and relax, guilt-free
  • You are proud of your accomplishments 
  • You are flexible and can easily adjust when things don't go as planned


👉🏻 In addition to all the community, the tools and resources, and the Q&A calls, Village members get first dibs on new offers and events AND can take advantage of Village Only Pricing for all Courses, Masterclasses, and Private Coaching. 



Here is what people are saying about The Village...

If you’ve made it this far, it’s pretty safe to say that you are looking for something. A safe space to explore and grow, a place to learn how to heal your nervous system, a place to learn how to have a successful, fulfilling life that doesn't involve the cycle of burn out. A place to finally start feeling like yourself again…or for maybe even the first time. 

You, friend, are in the right spot.

The determining factor for someone who continues to struggle in survival mode, with fear, panic and constantly feeling like they are behind in life vs someone who thrives after Perfectionism and Burnout - is the level of experienced support they are willing to receive.

The Village is where you come to set yourself free, to heal, to rebuild, to be seen, heard, and celebrated. The Village is the difference between decades of loneliness, frustration, and exhaustion and peace, calm, and self-discovery. 

We love you.


Brandon & Tasha