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The Rules & Rebellion Village 

 

Capacity. Consistency. Community.


  A private membership community for active and aspiring leaders, business owners, entrepreneurs, and creatives to rebuild their capacity and create consistency
(without doing anything perfectly)

so they can grow their business, hit their goals, and deepen their relationships without perfectionism and burnout

 

JOIN THE VILLAGE

The goal of the Village is simple: 


Build capacity and create consistency without ignoring your body or your life so you can be as successful as you want without sacrificing yourself, your relationships or your values in the process


The members of the Village are ambitious, driven, passionate business owners, entrepreneurs, team leaders, and creatives

and the reason they come to the Village is this...

[#1] They are burnt out or close to it...

they’ve been doing all the shit you are “supposed” to do to be successful, make money and have what you want but they are hitting a wall: 

  • Miracle mornings

  • Time blocking 

  • Hustling 

  • Working their business morning, noon and night


But it’s not working anymore.


Their capacity is tanked and consistency is coming in sprints and waves → when its on its ON and when its off…it’s a fight to get it back up and running again 

[#2] The things they are doing - even if they are “successful” - are not giving them the life they want...


they are working their ass off, building and running a business but they are missing the important moments in their life - the family dinners, date nights, lazy weekends, and friend hangs


Or, they are sacrificing their ambition and goals so they can make those moments only to be distracted and half-heartedly engaged  

[#3] Their life feels like a grind...

 

‘Emergencies’ and surprises keep popping up interrupting their flow, disrupting their progress and they feel trapped in limbo - they can’t give their personal or professional life the time they need or want - everything feels like a sacrifice. 

Here’s how we do it differently than anyone else:

 

We don’t ask you to put your life on hold until after you hit your business or professional goals, and we don’t ask you to adjust your biz/professional goals so you can be there for the moments in your life that really matter

 

We teach you how to create capacity for all of it so that you can be present for your whole life while it's happening - personally & professionally: 


✨Be fully present for family game night after any given day launching your favorite group program 

✨Sign on 2 soulmate clients without promising you’ll be on-call in DMs and emails for them

✨Go to your pottery class or writing workshop without checking your phone the whole time


→ it’s all important, it all matters and you deserve to be there for all of it

 

Every quarter in the Village we support our members as they go through our entire Unshakeable Framework:


✨Phase 1: Unshakeable Nervous System 

✨Phase 2: Unshakable Identity 

✨Phase 3: Unshakeable Boundaries

In Phase 1...we help you reprogram your dysregulated nervous system


You identify where and how you are showing up to situations with perfectionism, which stress response you default to the most, and what Complex Life Circumstances are the biggest drain on your capacity


You create anchors and a daily menu of nervous system regulation practices to use anytime so when shit goes sideways you skip the meltdown and doom scrolling and get back to your grounded confident capable self to pivot and keep moving forward


This is where your capacity starts to increase, and you feel physically and emotionally more confident and capable

Phase 2 is when you start to see what’s REALLY been  holding you back from having the business and life you really want and who you are when you’re not living each day survival mode


You stop pretending that your Complex Life Circumstances are just something that happens in the background and get clear on what your nervous system and schedule need to support them → 


We are talking about your cycle, perimenopause, your ADHD, your family responsibilities, and whatever else taps your capacity - they matter, they are happening and we are going to account for them


This is when we also lock in your Core Values so that when you are making decisions about who, what, and where you give your attention, its aligned with the shit that matters the most to YOU


You know now that your procrastination, people pleasing, hyper-independence and productivity based patterns aren’t your identity and finally feel proud of who you are becoming  

And in Phase 3 we build realistic, sustainable boundaries that deepen your relationships, strengthen your goals and create the final puzzle piece to be consistent in the way you’ve always wanted 


Everything you’ve learned about boundaries up to now has been wrong - you can’t just say no and expect people to listen, you can’t just say something once and think it's going to stick - not with people you actually want to build a life or professional relationship with long term


Real boundaries created by successful, emotionally mature, regulated people are nuanced.  They require time, patience and practice. 


We help our members come back to themselves, hold space for their real life, and find the words for each of the boundaries they need until they are living their life and building their business from capacity with consistency

not urgency fueled by anxiety and perfectionism

Here’s what you can expect: 

 

Each month we focus on 1 phase of the Unshakeable Framework - in order. 

For example: April: Phase 1, May: Phase 2, June: Phase 3 (and then we start all over again) 

LIVE Q&A Calls 

Every month we host (2) live 60 minute Q&A calls: 
the first of which will have a 30 minute lesson/overview of the phase focus for the month

→ All Village calls take place on Monday’s (one at 9am PST and the other at 3pm PST )

We don’t care about the state of your hair, the color of your pajamas or what snack you happen to be eating - camera on or off it doesn’t matter - these calls are about showing up, as you are, so that you can be present

During the Q&A calls we encourage our members to bring real life challenges and examples to the call so we can apply the Unshakeable Framework to something that is happening in real-time.

We go deep and get specific so that when you leave the call you can apply what you learned immediately.

EDUCATIONAL CONTENT

In addition to the live support and coaching you have access to recorded modules and lessons for each phase of the Unshakeable Framework

As well as bonus Masterclasses that support and deepen the concepts in each module 

In your library you also have access to replays of the Q&A calls so you can go back and revisit calls as you are working through the Unshakeable Framework, or watch calls you missed 
 

Private Online COMMUNITY

In addition to the calls you will be part of a private online community space where you can:
  • share wins
  • ask questions
  • receive compassionate accountability for whatever you are working on.

We are  in the community twice a week answering questions, celebrating wins and giving you feedback on whatever you need - this could be the wording for a boundary, working through a nervous system habit hiccup, or figuring out what to do when a CLC pops up out of no where 



The Village is NOT 🙅‍♀️ 🙅‍♂️ for you if:

  • You frequently feel calm, energized and regulate your nervous system consistently
  • Are making decisions in your business and daily life easily, without hesitation or doubting yourself
  • You advocate for your needs and tell people NO easily and frequently
  • You ask for what you need confidently
  • You regularly wake up energized and excited for the day ahead
  • You rest, play and relax, guilt-free
  • You are proud of your accomplishments 
  • You are flexible and can easily adjust when things don't go as planned

+VILLAGE PERKS

👉🏻 In addition to all the community, the tools and resources, and the Q&A calls, Village members get first dibs on new offers and events AND can take advantage of Village Only Pricing for all Courses, Masterclasses, and Private Coaching. 

INVESTMENT:

PAY IN FULL $1350 USD
15 PAYMENTS OF $99

Here is what people are saying about The Village...

From Sandra E. Member since April 2022

My favorite parts of being in The Village: Tasha and Brandon GENTLY guide me to uncover the root of the problem and help me find an appropriate solution for the season that I am in.

AND The village members cheering me on and being my accountability partners throughout my journey. Everyone in the Village wants to see you succeed and thrive.

 I have also seen a change in family members, they are using some of the nervous system regulation techniques that I learned.

They also have a calmer mom and wife in their lives. I should also add that I have seen a big change in my work habits. I have created boundaries. I have more balance in my life. When that balance tips to work for an extended period of time, and I start to not only feel dysregulated and overwhelmed, I know that I can go to the Village (meetings, recordings or page) and get myself back on track to a happier and more fulfilled me.

 

Jenny J.

“Tasha has changed my whole way of thinking about perfectionism, and procrastination... I have become more patient, gentler and kinder with myself.  I have learned that my needs are valid and are important enough to be listened to. And to live by them! And that it is okay to live by my needs and core values, that in fact that is all that is important. “

“...Brandon also opened up my way of thinking in regards to being more free, more wild, more creative. And to explore! An idea that I have been carrying inside me ever since.”

Sam A.

“This group is a safe and judgement free zone. I have learned so much about myself by hearing other people share their own experiences and struggles. I’ve become more self-aware and less critical.”

Sylvia G

Tasha and Brandon coached and taught as a team. They use their lives and experience to add depth and flavor to the course. I gained personal insight and actionable steps to follow. Tasha and Brandon are both passionate about teaching and coaching. They give 110% with every module they teach. You know they care and want to help you grow and change. They are both the real deal. I enjoyed the course and both of their warm personalities. I highly recommend this community. Anyone in it will gain value.” 

--- Sylvia G.

 

If you’ve made it this far, it’s pretty safe to say that you are looking for something. A safe space to explore and grow, a place to learn how to heal your nervous system, a place to learn how to have a successful, fulfilling life that doesn't involve the cycle of burn out. A place to finally start feeling like yourself again…or for maybe even the first time. 

You, friend, are in the right spot.

The determining factor for someone who continues to struggle in survival mode, with fear, panic and constantly feeling like they are behind in life vs someone who thrives after Perfectionism and Burnout - is the level of experienced support they are willing to receive.

You are not broken. You do not need to be fixed. You need to be reminded of the badass you already are and shown how to build on the skills you already have to make your dreams a reality.

The Village is where you learn how to turn your passions and goals into something you live rather than something you dream about. 

This is where you come to practice setting yourself free, and release the rules and expectations that were forced upon you. 

This is where you come to stand with others who are managing complex lives with ADHD, hormonal fluctuations, taking care of kids and parents, chronic illness symptoms and running a business - fully embracing your individual gifts and passions, together, supporting one another and standing fully in their power.

Trade self-criticism for compassion and curiosity.

Exchange perfectionism and rigidity for practice, flexibility and grace.

Find ease, focus and energy where you used to be stuck and buried with overwhelm.

All with practical, realistic systems that you can actually use because they were designed FOR YOU.

The Village is where you set yourself free, to heal, to rebuild, to be seen, heard, and celebrated. The Village is the difference between decades of loneliness, frustration, and burning out and peace, calm, and self-discovery. 

We can't wait to see what you build and cheer you on every step of the way

🖤💜

Brandon & Tasha

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FAQ

The Village origin story:

11 years ago we were so deeply rooted in perfectionism and survival mode that we landed in burnout so hard we almost didn’t make it out. In all the ways. 

Our physical, mental and emotional health were in danger in a way they’d never been before. In order to survive we needed to make long-lasting sustainable changes in our lives and our relationships.

The first few years of this journey were some of the hardest years of our lives but we were committed to not abandoning ourselves ever again.  

Along the way we had to get honest 

 We started asking ourselves “is this really what I want?” 

 The answers that surfaced were surprising. But what was most surprising was that the more we healed, the more we expressed ourselves, and the more started doing things in a way that supported our needs - the lonelier it got.

We turned to "experts" -coaches, mentors, friends and family but they just didn’t understand that our life was not as easy as following the simple 1-2-3 steps. And that we weren’t willing to keep forcing ourselves, or our kids, to fit into societal structures that didn't serve any of us.

They didn't understand the complexity and unpredictability of multiple chronic illnesses (ME/CFS, POTs, EDs, MCAS, etc) or neurodivergent brains or the chronic nervous system dysregulation of our respective complex trauma.

We were struggling on every level and it seemed like the only advice we got was “decrease your stress and do it THIS way" or "just be optimistic, think positive".

I cannot find the words to describe the heartache, frustration, and grief we went through but I'm sure you can relate.

Even still, we knew that on the other side of the swamp there was a life that waiting for us that was pure fucking magic.

So we did what any good Neurodivergent-codependent-perfectionist-introverted couple would do. 

We stayed inside and hunkered down to figure it out for ourselves. 

AND we did it….it just took every ounce of energy we had and 6 fucking years to do it. But we did it.

As we released coping mechanisms, "bad" habits and relationships that were no longer aligned with where we wanted to be and what we wanted in our lives, we healed.

Through it all, we ended up developing systems and found philosophies that honored our lived experience and those who have traveled similar paths.

Community is one of the most crucial pillars of those philosophies and systems.

 Letting go of survival coping mechanisms, bad habits and relationships that were forged in trauma so that you can express your true self and live your most fulfilling life can be hard and sometimes scary work. And what we discovered, both in our personal experience and with clients, but also in neuroscience studies - you will only go so far in your healing journey and transformation solo.

AS you know, doing it alone is hard and often scary, it takes a really long time and makes you leaves you exhausted. And then you hit a wall. 

We created a community where overachievers and perfectionists could learn how to heal from burnout, create sustainable life changing choices and habits and begin to dream beyond surviving.

All without worrying about running out of money or time.

Thus, The Village was born. A lifetime membership community for perfectionist and high achievers to learn how to safely recover from burnout by reclaiming their life.