Podcast Ep. 64: F*ck Greeting Cards and Other Things My Husband Says

Brandon has been a professional artist for 20 years, focusing mostly in theatre, design, and the event industry. During that time he has grown to fully embrace the strength and benefits that collaboration and the creative process afford everyone.

As a Creativity Coach, Brandon helps people identify their own unique version of creativity and how to better express it, and ultimately themselves. Whether it is navigating daily tasks like cooking and scheduling, designing your personal space, or making “art”, creativity is at the center of it all and tuning in and embracing it is one of the key elements to living a full, bold, meaningful life.     

In this episode we discussed:

  • Parenting
  • Relationships
  • Creativity
  • Toxic Masculinity

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Podcast Ep. 53: Recreating The Holidays As A Recovering Perfectionist

Traditions, family connection and holiday cheer are all being challenged by the pandemic infused holiday season. In this episode, I invite you to take the pressure off of you and everyone else, give you some ideas on how to recreate connection from afar and consider being completely honest with yourself about the holiday seasons from the past. 

Sending you a ton of love while you navigate the challenges and invite the adventure for this year's holiday season. 

**I was a little under the weather when recording this episode so thank you for allowing me to show up fully human. XO

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Podcast Ep. 48: She Knows Everybody Belongs in a Book

So much good stuff friends!!! Today’s conversation is with Kristy Ware, Kristy is a high energy and enthusiastic Health Coach, Speaker, Author, and Corporate Wellness Program Facilitator. She motivates and inspires men and women to lead vibrant and confident lives through sustainable fitness, eating and self-love.

 From talking about “who gets the good computer”, LGBTQ representation in children’s books, and following your passions one step at a time, this interview was energizing and so much fun. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

In this episode we discussed:

  • Boundaries
  • Communication
  • Spirituality/meditation
  • Entrepreneurship
  • Blended families/representation

Books by Kristy:

  • Sky Rider 
  • I WILL BE ME
  • I’m A Rainbow

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  • Big Leap by Gay Hendricks
  • No Sweat by Michelle Segar 
  • The Universe has Your Back by Gabrielle Bernstein
  • Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo
  • You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero
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Podcast Ep. 26: The Woman Who Taught Me How To Be A Friend - Interview With My BFF

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Kathleen Glen, LCSW, is a kidney transplant medical social worker in NY. She’s a mom, a wife, sister, and friend to many. But to me?  She's my soul sister for 22 years and my number one teacher about how to be the friend I want and need to be. We hash out our friendship values, how we navigated lost friendships and the expectations we have at 40, uncensored.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

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Podcast Ep. 25: Anatomy of a Grown Up Friendship

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The relationship we NEVER talk about enough is Friendship. Today I dig into why friendships are essential for your journey to become the boldest version of yourself and I share what my core values are in a friendship. We have more friendships in our lifetime than we do parents, children and partners combined - it's time to elevate this relationship and acknowledge weight it actually has in our lives. 

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I’d LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

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Podcast Ep 11: Boundaries, Codependency, and Interdependency in Partnership

Boundaries and codependency have a weird stigma in the world of social media meme culture and have been watered down, thus ineffectively used in the effort of supporting healthy and connected relationships of all kinds.

I see dozens of posts regularly in the "relationships" category on all platforms about using boundaries when you find yourself in a "toxic" relationship. We will cover how ridiculous the term "toxic relationships" is in another episode but today we are pulling back the veil on the terms boundaries, codependency and INTERdependence (not the same as independence). 

What they actually mean, the clarity on how to identify the tendencies (and not get distracted by the label)...and the truth about rewiring those habits that are inhibiting you from becoming the truest version of yourself.

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Podcast Ep 9: Communication and Conflict in Partnership

Communication is the vehicle to connection and it's essential to use effective communication in our partnership relationships. Knowing how to talk about what you need, what's bothering you and how to receive the same from your partner requires practice and an unlearning and reframing of rules you brought with you into your relationship. In this episode, I'll offer some questions to consider, share some of the challenges I have to work through in my partnership and the number 1 tip I got from a therapist that REALLY made it so much easier to have effective communication.

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Podcast Ep 7: Your Purpose and Your Partner

What do you do when you are speeding down the personal evolution highway and can’t get your partner to even look in the direction of where you are going?
We cover this challenge and potential solutions in this episode.

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Podcast Ep 5: The Rules We Bring To Our Partnership

Are there really only 2 people in your partnership? What do you expect from this long-term committed relationship? Partnerships are complex, multi-layered and can be an incredible part of your support system to become the boldest and truest you. But there are likely some factors you haven’t considered that could be delaying your deeper connection or cutting it off completely. Today’s conversation will offer some insight into where to start digging around so you can close those gaps.

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Boldly Becoming You is a podcast now!

Aaaaahhhh! I'm so nervous and excited and fighting the urge to tell everyone that I am very aware of my amateur, just getting started, beginner's status.

Isn't it funny we do that? When I am doing something new and there is an audience of any kind, whether it's my husband or kids or the social media audience, I find myself nonchalantly apologizing for not being an expert. It's that old perfectionism stuff that comes up - the "I am only valuable and loved when I am doing things perfectly." 

So I'm resisting this to some degree, at least to the level I would have. The 5 years ago me, hell, the 8 months ago me, would have overexplained the recording quality, the graphics, the sound of my voice and probably a dozen other things I shouldn't be embarrassed about because I freaking took on a new, big, kinda scary thing. I'm not a pro...yet.

I wasn't an expert 20 years ago on relationships, on self-awareness, on human behavior...on myself. But I kept showing up and pushed forward...

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